Well, to put it simply, it’s a recently discovered primal drive that ALL MEN are powerfully influenced by without even knowing it.
Every man you know agonizes over this primal drive more than anything else… Even his sex drive.
In fact, this drive is so hard-wired into a man’s mind that is subconsciously controls everything he does.
From the time he wakes up to the moment his head hits the pillow at night.
How to refocus a man’s natural competitive drive on winning your love.
There’s a relationship “secret ingredient” that a man craves in order to feel intense, committed love. Without it, he will always keep one foot out the door.
There’s a relationship “secret ingredient” that a man craves in order to feel intense, committed love. Without it, he will always keep one foot out the door.
How to tap into a man’s natural obsession for achievement. When you know how to spark a man’s desire by channelling this obsessive drive, he’ll stop at nothing to make you feel happy, cherished, and truly loved.
You’ve got two main parts:
Part I is called “How The Hero Instinct Works” and covers the theory. It consists of 11 modules, and you learn how to recognize the hidden patterns of the Hero Instinct.
Part II is called “How To Use The Signals” and describes how to put the things you learned in part one into practice. In 6 modules you discover specific applications and examples.
Also, James included his “Text Message Formulas” as a bonus.
And to get you started right away, you get the “7 Day Quick Start Action Workbook”.
So, let me give you an overview of the contents of each module.
I need to keep this to the most important key principles for each chapter since there is just too much content to cover everything here.
The first part describes the “theory” of the Hero Instinct.
But don’t let the word “theory” put you off – James Bauer writes in a very direct and entertaining way, with lots of real life examples.
In this module you learn
To practice, James encourages you to use what you learn in this chapter by observing the men around you, identifying opportunities to trigger their Hero Instinct.
In the next module, James Bauer teaches you
Being able to give him this feeling is like giving him a precious, unique gift of incredible worth to him.
This module describes
This has been one of the most important modules in Part I for me personally. The way James describes this male need to feel worthy touched me deeply. When I’m able to be a Hero for my wife Anne, I can open to her emotionally. And – the most important part – I like the version of myself that I find in Anne’s presence.
In this module, you learn
Most importantly, you learn James’ famous “Deserted Island Signal Formula” – what it is, and how to apply it.
You will learn the different phases men go through in their life:
James teaches about manliness and the drive we have to provide, and how you can use that drive for the benefit of your relationship.
In the next module, James describes
Also, you learn the three best fascination phrases – the special signals that are picked up by his male provider instinct.
The module ends with the five steps that will transform your man.
This is one of the most important modules in Part I.
In it, you learn
Also, James teaches you what to do if you two don’t want the same things.
And – somehow this rings a bell for me, too – how to avoid your dates beginning to feel a little stale and predictable.
This module describes
Remember “Mixtapes”? I really liked James’ idea of an improved version of this old classic.
On our deathbed, all of us will judge our lives based on the impact we had on the people we care about.
This module shows you how you can create this impact:
My guess is that this is the longest module.
Personally, I think the male need for “Feeling understood” cannot be overstated – again, it’s something that totally rang a bell when I was studying this module.
In this module, we are going even deeper. You learn
This module focuses on the one factor that determines whether or not your man feels connected (hint: it has something to do with vulnerability and shame).
Also, you learn about the “Damsel in Distress Signal” – the signal that had the most impact on the relationship with my wife.
Other than in books and movies, in real life, things don’t always go smooth. This module focuses on what to do if things go not the way you intended.
You learn what to do
Also, James Bauer covers two important methods:
Other than in books and movies, in real life, things don’t always go smooth. This module focuses on what to do if things go not the way you intended.
You learn what to do
Also, James Bauer covers two important methods:
Now we are diving into the “real world” application of the stuff you learned in Part I.
James describes real-life applications and examples in great detail, making it easy to stick the concepts in your memory.
But don’t worry, there is no need to memorize all at once.
You can (and should!) pick one of the methods, focus on that one idea, and master it.
Then, gradually, you are making progress without feeling overwhelmed with all the options.
You know that you achieved mastery when you start designing your own signals, based on the patterns of the hero instinct you see all around you.
In this chapter, you learn
Also, James gives you a brief explanation of why this works (linking the practice back to the theory you learned in Part I).
This module describes
Also, the module covers 5 example phrases you can use and a (kind of surprising) story example.
In module 14, you learn
This module relates to module 7 in Part I.
In it, James Bauer describes
This module describes this influence strategy, relating to Module 9 of Part I.
You learn
The final module in Part II teaches the most impactful signal that you can send to your man.
James Bauer explains
Most importantly, James covers several examples that will not work, and another real-life story to illustrate the signal.
This bonus training enhances the contents from the main course.
In 5 chapters, the “Text Message Formulas” training covers how to apply the core principles of “His Secret Obsession” through text messages.
Now, I’m not going to lie – the contents of this course are massive.
There is a lot to digest.
So, James Bauer included this “His Secret Obsession Workbook” to get you focused and started quickly.
It leads you through the chapters over seven days, so you don’t feel overwhelmed. But – of course – you can take whatever time you need, there’s no need to do this in 7 consecutive days.
As an added bonus, there’s a “Vocabulary Review” quiz, to check whether you know all the signals.
Finally, there are the 5 Master Steps you need to follow to awaken his Hero Instinct.
If you prefer listening, James includes audio versions for both the “His Secret Obsession” main course as well as the “His Secret Obsession – Text Message Formulas” bonus training.
You can download them easily, and put them on your favorite device, so you can listent in the car, during your work out, or whenever and wherever you want.
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